Relationship Support – Brief Encounters to Support Infant Mental Health

Relationship Support – Brief Encounters to Support Infant Mental Health

It is well documented that relationship quality between parents, including any unhelpful conflict, can have a negative effect on the development of babies and young children. This is especially true during the first 1001 days, from antenatal to age 2 years, which lays the foundations for both physical and mental wellbeing throughout the lifespan. This is particularly relevant in light of the fact that partners are more likely to experience conflict at times of significant transitions such as the birth of a baby, particularly your first child. While many programmes and much support is rightly available to support parents in their parenting role, the importance of the relationship between parents is often overlooked by those designing and developing services to support parents in bringing up their children

There is a wealth of evidence to demonstrate that early interventions are the most evidence & cost-effective way of transforming child & family outcomes. Last week, the Department of Education published the report of the Expert Panel on Educational Underachievement in Northern Ireland. A Fair Start, the final report and action plan from the panel made is an interesting read. The report recognises the importance of Early Years and the vital importance of existing services such as Sure Start, and calls for a redirection of focus into early years as well as championing emotional mental health and wellbeing.

 

Numerous times in its final report, the expert panel referenced the importance of supporting parents & families to better understand and support children’s development and prominence was also given to emotional health and a strategic approach to the provision of wellbeing support. Through Relate NI’s work in primary schools in Belfast, we are well aware of the impact on children, families and the wider school community of high-quality therapeutic support.

One particularly interesting action was proposed in the report: the Department of Health should expand the developmental role of the health visitor/community midwife programme to provide early support, education and signposting. Universal services such as midwifery and health visiting are vital resources for expectant and new parents, and the skills of those delivering this service have the potential to further improve outcomes for families and children. Relate NI believe that there is an opportunity to give every child the best start in life by including a focus on the inter-parental relationship in universal services such as these. A person experiencing relationship distress is most likely to turn to someone that they are already in routine contact with such as a midwife, health visitor or frontline practitioner. However, opportunities for early intervention are often missed because health visitors sometimes feel they don’t have the training to be able to discuss relationship issues and their impact on infant mental health or that it is not their role

With effective training, frontline practitioners can feel confident in how to handle conversations with parents about their relationship difficulties and refer appropriately to more specialised therapeutic services. By incorporating a couple dimension into health visiting practice, we can intervene earlier to support the quality of the parental couple relationship, and the subsequent mental health of parents during the perinatal period. This will lead to better outcomes for infant mental health by reducing exposure to potentially harmful levels of parental distress and conflict.

Our digital resource for supporting parents & relationships, created in partnership with The Parent Rooms, may be helpful further reading #IMHAW21

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